In the Bible: Solomon and His Sons

The Uneven Relationships of Fathers and Sons in Tanach; Nevertheless, Solomon's Intellectual, Political, and Religious Greatness Makes Him a Fit Successor to His Father, King David

Oct 18, 1990

This lecture is different since is starts at the end: distilling the essential characteristic of King Solomon. Yet before turning to him and to his father, King David, it’s proper to consider the uneven relations of fathers and sons in the Torah/Bible: the first family; Abraham; Jacob; Moses and Aaron. Much better are such relations as set forth in the Talmud. King David’s other sons—Ammon, Avshalom, Adonijah—cause many problems, including (with the latter) attempting to usurp David. In contrast, David’s son Solomon shows intellectual, religious and political greatness. Yet even his successes have a dark side. Solomon proclaims he will cut the child in half and thereby reveals the true mother. But imagine the mother’s anguish at hearing the decree . . . Again, the very night the Temple is completed, Solomon marries an Egyptian princess and thereby overshadows his people’s joy with his own. His book Kohelet acknowledges that it is too late to rectify his mistakes. Further, for three years a demon assumes the throne disguised as the King; when Solomon regains the throne he is a changed man. His ring, engraved with the words “that too shall pass,” reminds us what is left when a story ends? Another story.

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1) Starting at the End: Understanding Solomon
2) The Humanness of Solomon and His Family
3) 24 Years at 92Y, Language as a Monument
4) David & Solomon as a Case Study: Relationships With Sons
5) Other Biblical Fathers/Sons
6) Issues With David’s Children
7) Amnon & Tamar
8) Avshalom’s Hatred
9) David’s Permissive Parenting
10) Adonijah’s Fight for the Throne
11) Doubling Down: Nathan and Batsheva
12) Speaking All Languages, Understanding All Cultures
13) The Queen of Sheba
14) Building the Temple
15) Midrashic Views on Solomon
16) Breaking Up Families, Tormenting Through Tests
17) Exorbitance in Wealth and Wives
18) A Mistake to Mix Blessings
19) The Smartest Man in the World Outsmarted By His Wives
20) Solomon as the Author of Kohelet
21) Solomon Aped and Usurped by Ashmedai
22) A Changed Man
23) On His Ring: "That Too Shall Pass"
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